I Hate One Born Every Minute Because......

So many in the birth world have written about this and as a person with a film and media background I have often considered writing a piece so I have. I think my view can be summed up in this short passage....

I hate One Born Every Minute because it represents women to be powerless. Being told when to push, stop pushing, breathe, stop breathing, when they're having a contraction and the list goes on. Most lay on their backs of course, strapped up to unexplained monitors, unable to move. But women are powerful. They are never more powerful than when they are giving birth to a human they created and grew meticulously for near 9 months. And they know when to push, to stop pushing, to breathe, and breathe again and to breathe again because guess what? Humans need oxygen fuck-wits!! They know when to move, to stop moving, when and how to change position. They know all of this...if you give them a chance.

...and you don't need a film and media background to know that shit.


Emma Culley-Morgan
Positive Birth Educator and founder of Awesome Mama Antenatal
AwesomeMama.co.uk
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